How to Order a Mocktail at a Bar Without Feeling Weird About It
- Taryn Sisco
- Jul 6
- 2 min read
Let’s be honest, walking up to a crowded bar and asking for a non-alcoholic drink can feel like you’re announcing to the world, “Hey! I’m not drinking!” Cue the imaginary spotlight. But here’s the truth: no one cares as much as you think they do. And you deserve a great drink, with or without the buzz.
If you’re dipping your toe into alcohol-free life, here’s how to confidently order a mocktail at a bar without making it weird.
1. Keep it simple
Bartenders are used to requests. You don’t need a long explanation, just say:
“Can you make me something refreshing and alcohol-free?”
Let them get creative. Most bartenders love a challenge. Citrus, herbs, soda water, and syrups are all fair game, and you’ll likely end up with something way better than a basic soda.
2. Use buzzwords
Want something specific? Try:
“Can you do a mojito-style mocktail without the rum?”
“Can you make something with ginger beer and lime, no alcohol?”
“Can you do something spicy, not too sweet, and alcohol-free?”
Give a vibe. Fruity, spicy, herbal, tart. That’s all they need.
3. Don’t be afraid to ask for a NA version of a classic
Mocktails aren’t just for dry bars anymore. Try:
Margarita, hold the tequila (ask for lime, orange juice, and sparkling water or ginger beer)
Paloma with grapefruit juice, soda, and lime
A virgin mule with ginger beer and lime
NA espresso martini with cold brew and oat milk
These are fun, easy to make, and feel elevated...not like you’re sipping a kid’s menu Shirley Temple.
4. If the bartender looks lost… suggest a combo
Some bars still haven’t caught on. If you’re met with a blank stare, help them out:
“Can you do soda water with lime and a splash of cranberry?”
“How about lemonade with a splash of club soda and mint?”
Low-maintenance, but still tastes like a drink-drink.
5. Pro tip: Watch your glassware
Ask for it in a rocks glass or a coupe, because half the magic of a mocktail is how it looks. If you want to feel like part of the party, the right glass makes a big difference. No one wants a juice box at the grown-up table.
6. Confidence is your best garnish
You don’t need to over-explain why you’re not drinking. Say it with a smile, sip your beautiful alcohol-free creation, and enjoy your night. You’re not missing out, you’re showing up fully present (and you’ll remember your conversations tomorrow).
Bottom line?
Ordering a mocktail shouldn’t feel like a compromise. With a little confidence and a few go-to phrases, you can walk up to any bar and get something that actually feels like a treat.
You deserve to feel good in your glass. And now you know exactly how to ask for it.
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